What is Emotional Incest?

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[bernie]: 0:00

Lights, camera and action. Ooh.

[purr]: 0:04

I thought I was starting the podcast with Lil Wayne with that light flicker.

[bernie]: 0:08

Oh,

[purr]: 0:08

That

[bernie]: 0:09

it.

[purr]: 0:09

lighter flicker.

[bernie]: 0:10

Low. I'm a love that he still incorporates that shit. And that's still his signature sound like you

[purr]: 0:16

That's

[bernie]: 0:16

always

[purr]: 0:16

all I

[bernie]: 0:16

know,

[purr]: 0:16

got.

[bernie]: 0:16

like,

[purr]: 0:18

You

[bernie]: 0:18

Wayne

[purr]: 0:18

know,

[bernie]: 0:19

Cullen.

[purr]: 0:19

it's about to be Wayne coming.

[bernie]: 0:22

Yeah,

[purr]: 0:22

Well,

[bernie]: 0:22

I feel

[purr]: 0:23

hey,

[bernie]: 0:23

like

[purr]: 0:23

guys.

[bernie]: 0:24

he's been back on it recently though, verse wise though, like, because I feel like he was a little moment where it was like, okay, what's going on, nigga?

[purr]: 0:30

Yeah.

[bernie]: 0:31

What's going on?

[purr]: 0:33

Cause he was on everything for a minute. That was before

[bernie]: 0:36

Right.

[purr]: 0:36

he went in, before he went in the pen.

[bernie]: 0:39

Right, right, right.

[purr]: 0:42

Um, hey guys, it's

[bernie]: 0:44

Oh yeah, forgot.

[purr]: 0:45

why freaks podcast. Sorry, we forgot. Um, you know, we keep a real kiss real kiss.

[bernie]: 0:53

Okay.

[purr]: 0:53

Um, hey, it's your girl near around easy F a B the lieutenant per

[bernie]: 1:01

Hi, it's your Sampdan Burn, AKA Pobesito Purr. I'm really like still adjusting to this new lifestyle with my hair. You know how it takes you like a long time to like adjust to a new hairstyle. And I'm still getting there. This...

[purr]: 1:20

You still... Are you more just like carefree though? It's like...

[bernie]: 1:28

Yeah, low key. I feel pressure off of getting up and not having to worry about that. I gotta do something. You know what I'm saying? I'm up and I'm like,

[purr]: 1:35

Yeah.

[bernie]: 1:35

let me just unbraid a couple of these niggas out and let's hit the road.

[purr]: 1:40

Yeah, I'm ready to go.

[bernie]: 1:42

ready to go, but then it's also like getting through this awkward like stage of it, you know,

[purr]: 1:49

Yes,

[bernie]: 1:49

but

[purr]: 1:50

at least you didn't have to start with like the starter dress. Oh baby.

[bernie]: 1:54

Oh, Lord, Jesus.

[purr]: 1:58

That's only for the strong.

[bernie]: 2:01

I

[purr]: 2:01

I

[bernie]: 2:01

do.

[purr]: 2:01

don't know if I could be with a nigga with started dreads. He gotta have hair already

[bernie]: 2:07

Yeah.

[purr]: 2:07

where yours is before

[bernie]: 2:09

You couldn't

[purr]: 2:09

they get

[bernie]: 2:09

do the

[purr]: 2:10

lost.

[bernie]: 2:10

little, you couldn't do like the

[purr]: 2:11

I

[bernie]: 2:11

little

[purr]: 2:11

don't think

[bernie]: 2:11

worms.

[purr]: 2:11

I can do

[bernie]: 2:12

You couldn't

[purr]: 2:12

it.

[bernie]: 2:13

do the little worms that be.

[purr]: 2:15

That's for strong bitches.

[bernie]: 2:18

I feel like you got to be like, you got to really have the face. So you got to be extra cute. Like you got to have you got to have an extra

[purr]: 2:24

He's having

[bernie]: 2:24

response

[purr]: 2:24

real cute.

[bernie]: 2:25

in order to get through that type of phase.

[purr]: 2:27

Yeah,

[bernie]: 2:28

Yeah.

[purr]: 2:29

that's for that's for strong bitches because I don't know if

[bernie]: 2:32

Ooh.

[purr]: 2:32

I can see through

[bernie]: 2:35

You look up and that shit over top of you, you like, no, I'm just like.

[purr]: 2:40

Yeah

[bernie]: 2:41

Depending on what they think it looks like though, that's why I'm saying you gotta be set up

[purr]: 2:45

Yeah.

[bernie]: 2:46

to be able to do that. You know what I mean? Yeah,

[purr]: 2:49

That's

[bernie]: 2:50

you do.

[purr]: 2:51

true. It's just something about him that already do look kind of childish. So it's like, I can't imagine I make it with like a full beard that looks very like established, manly. And now you got these little star dreads.

[bernie]: 3:07

Like nigga grow up.

[purr]: 3:09

girl what you doing because the beard everything is not matching the aesthetic is not matching what are we doing

[bernie]: 3:17

Yeah, I feel like you gotta just wait. Just like, just go through the phase, wait, let it be out, however, braid it, braid that shit down, however you gotta do it, until it gets to the length to where it's like appropriate to even start dreading that bullshit,

[purr]: 3:28

Yeah.

[bernie]: 3:29

because like, nah. Nah, I wasn't gonna

[purr]: 3:33

This looks

[bernie]: 3:33

do that.

[purr]: 3:33

great.

[bernie]: 3:33

I wasn't gonna go out like that.

[purr]: 3:38

No.

[bernie]: 3:40

Oh my gosh. Okay, so let's get into this. There was a question of the day that I had, that had come up.

[purr]: 3:49

I didn't look

[bernie]: 3:49

And

[purr]: 3:49

at

[bernie]: 3:49

this

[purr]: 3:49

it.

[bernie]: 3:50

came from,

[purr]: 3:50

I wanted to be supplied.

[bernie]: 3:52

so this came from the episode of, like it's the after show of Housewives of Atlanta. So I actually didn't even watch this week's episode

[purr]: 4:00

Lord.

[bernie]: 4:00

yet, but it's based on this clip anyways. So basically, Sheree and Sonya got into it over, so Sheree's dating this guy. He's- Let's say she's been seeing him for like, I think maybe five months at this point or something like that five, you know, four or five months. She's been dating this guy, they had a birthday dinner, she invited a few of her girlfriends with their man, some of them didn't have men, but she invited a few like he invited a few her girlfriend whatever to a dinner to celebrate her birthday. And the con

[purr]: 4:30

She invited

[bernie]: 4:30

and

[purr]: 4:30

her girls to.

[bernie]: 4:31

yeah, she invited her girls to a dinner because he like kind of was hosting like, oh, yes, a birthday dinner for her or whatever. And she invited like a few of her girls and stuff. And then one of them brought their husband or two of them brought their husband. You know, a few of them brought their husband, some of them came alone or brought like a date or something. Um, and at the end of the dinner, Sharay's man was like, you know, I guess he was going to like put pay for it, but he was asking for like a cash app from like everybody. And the conversation was like, Sandia felt some type of way, cause she felt like, well girl, your man should have paid for the dinner. Like, you know, you mean, you invite us out to a dinner, like he should have just taken care of the bill. Where Sheree was like, you know, like he shouldn't have taken care of the bill cause A, it's not my husband. And like, yeah, he, we've been dating, but like you also had your husband. So why would he be paying for another grown man?

[purr]: 5:24

Yeah.

[bernie]: 5:27

So what the fuck are you supposed to do in a situation like that? Like, you're supposed to fucking pay the whole bill. Who pays the bill? Like, what the fuck do you do? Like, it's an awkward

[purr]: 5:38

I mean,

[bernie]: 5:38

situation.

[purr]: 5:38

I just...

[bernie]: 5:38

And then it was like, it's techie

[purr]: 5:40

Yeah,

[bernie]: 5:40

after

[purr]: 5:40

but I

[bernie]: 5:41

you

[purr]: 5:41

can

[bernie]: 5:41

go

[purr]: 5:41

see...

[bernie]: 5:41

for a cash app.

[purr]: 5:46

I can see if he asked a couple of her homegirls to come out, asked for three friends to come. And then two of them into bringing their niggas or their husband. Okay, now it's gonna look different now. Maybe I was gonna pay at the beginning when it was like a couple of your homegirls, but they bought their husband and you thought I was about to pay for everybody now? Like,

[bernie]: 6:10

Right.

[purr]: 6:10

no.

[bernie]: 6:13

Okay, I feel the same. I feel like no, I'm not gonna pay for everybody. Like, these is grown ass people that like work to like, why would I pay for everybody when yeah, no.

[purr]: 6:26

No.

[bernie]: 6:26

If it was like a party situation and not like a dinner if it was like, oh, we're gonna have a party, then you got catered food. That's a different situation. But like, this is at a dinner, they're out at a restaurant

[purr]: 6:35

Yeah.

[bernie]: 6:35

and like, the bill came. And it's like a couple other niggas with their wives in there and You like,

[purr]: 6:43

Yeah,

[bernie]: 6:43

okay,

[purr]: 6:43

you lost

[bernie]: 6:43

hold on

[purr]: 6:44

me

[bernie]: 6:44

there.

[purr]: 6:44

at the people bringing their spouses and stuff. Like, hold on.

[bernie]: 6:48

Hold on

[purr]: 6:49

What

[bernie]: 6:49

now.

[purr]: 6:49

you do? This wasn't in the budget. Like you said,

[bernie]: 6:53

of it.

[purr]: 6:54

if it was like, we already ordered the food

[bernie]: 6:57

Yeah.

[purr]: 6:57

and we just told y'all to come through and eat, that's different. But hold on. Maybe

[bernie]: 7:05

Yeah.

[purr]: 7:06

I had a certain amount of dollars and now y'all bring an extra peak.

[bernie]: 7:12

Right, right. Well, Sonia

[purr]: 7:15

And

[bernie]: 7:15

felt

[purr]: 7:15

like you

[bernie]: 7:16

like,

[purr]: 7:16

said, that's not my husband.

[bernie]: 7:17

she felt like, well girl, like if it was my husband, he would have just taken care of the bill because that's just not how he gets down, you know, or whatever, because it was my birthday and then celebrate me, he would have just taken care of, you know, all of my friends and their people or whatever.

[purr]: 7:33

Okay, good for you.

[bernie]: 7:34

Does it change the situation with it being a husband versus a boyfriend now?

[purr]: 7:39

Um, still no. Because, like you said, why are you bringing why am I gonna pay for another whole girl meds? Multiple girl meds meal. Like this is crazy. Like why are you why would y'all show up? I didn't invite you. Like I'm just I didn't watch it. I'm not watching Housewives.

[bernie]: 8:04

Right.

[purr]: 8:04

So but I just imagine it like You know, you ask a couple of her homegirls to come out to have din-din, birthday din-din, and you know what? I'll probably pick up the tab and you know, pay for you and your girls. Now imagine they just start, not everyone but gotta plus one.

[bernie]: 8:27

Okay, yeah, that's looking sorry, that's looking so different.

[purr]: 8:30

and half of them is niggas.

[bernie]: 8:31

Yeah, no, that's looking

[purr]: 8:32

Hold

[bernie]: 8:33

way

[purr]: 8:33

on.

[bernie]: 8:33

different. Yeah, you damn right. That's looking way fucking different. And I say husband or not like that, that shit looks a little different.

[purr]: 8:42

looks real different. I would have been like, no, no.

[bernie]: 8:47

Now,

[purr]: 8:48

You don't have to say

[bernie]: 8:48

I

[purr]: 8:48

that.

[bernie]: 8:48

will say, I think the dynamic of it changes now. We were like couples, friends that did a lot of couple shit together. And it was just a couple of us. And we were like, okay, we got it this time. We're gonna handle this. You know what

[purr]: 9:00

Yeah.

[bernie]: 9:00

I'm saying? Because we know the situation. But I'm sorry. Nah. You got me fucked

[purr]: 9:07

No,

[bernie]: 9:08

up.

[purr]: 9:08

I don't even know you like that and you just rolling up. But like, yeah, if we, you know, we do this, we go out for your homegirl's birthday or like, you know, we get together on multiple occasions and sometimes somebody else will pick up the bill. Like, cool, we got it this time because I know y'all got it the next time. You know, you know when you have that type of like relationship

[bernie]: 9:30

Right, you got to know

[purr]: 9:31

with

[bernie]: 9:31

with,

[purr]: 9:31

people.

[bernie]: 9:32

yeah, exactly.

[purr]: 9:34

And like I said, I didn't watch it, so I don't know what type of relationship they got,

[bernie]: 9:37

It

[purr]: 9:37

but

[bernie]: 9:37

ain't that, I'll tell

[purr]: 9:38

it

[bernie]: 9:38

you that, God

[purr]: 9:38

sounds

[bernie]: 9:38

damn

[purr]: 9:39

like it ain't that. Because

[bernie]: 9:40

it. It ain't that.

[purr]: 9:41

what he said, absolutely not. I'll drop the cash app and y'all can send the money there.

[bernie]: 9:47

Where is the ketchup? Yeah, fact.

[purr]: 9:50

Hehehehe

[bernie]: 9:51

They was like, oh, it just looks kind of cheap. I don't give a fuck about what it looked like on TV.

[purr]: 9:54

Who the fuck?

[bernie]: 9:55

Don't be counting other people's pockets, no matter they're on TV or off TV. Stay out of people's purses. Because you don't know what I'm going

[purr]: 10:02

Oh, really?

[bernie]: 10:02

through.

[purr]: 10:02

Fuck. It's the principle, bitch.

[bernie]: 10:07

Yeah.

[purr]: 10:07

I probably do got it. But I don't mean I'm gonna give it.

[bernie]: 10:11

Uh... okay?

[purr]: 10:16

I thought this would.

[bernie]: 10:19

Insane. Okay, wait. So there was this next question to this is some silly shit low key. So you brought the person of your dreams home after the club? What's the first song you playing in the room? And some people were saying like,

[purr]: 10:34

First

[bernie]: 10:34

okay,

[purr]: 10:34

song you play in the room?

[bernie]: 10:35

in the room. Yeah. Somebody said all my life.

[purr]: 10:40

Ha ha

[bernie]: 10:41

Hehehehehehe

[purr]: 10:41

ha!

[bernie]: 10:47

somebody

[purr]: 10:47

Uh-uh.

[bernie]: 10:48

said would you mind Janet Jackson? I think my first thought was, because we enjoyed talking about this yesterday, but my first thought was Ray J, I hit it first. I don't know why that came, but that just felt like, yeah. Definitely one of those books.

[purr]: 11:09

The thing that came to my mind too was also something ratchet.

[bernie]: 11:16

Joe, I said all I do is

[purr]: 11:17

like

[bernie]: 11:17

win.

[purr]: 11:17

that.

[bernie]: 11:18

The DJ Khaled. If...

[purr]: 11:23

Oh my gosh. Huh. That's a good one. I don't know. I don't really have to think about that.

[bernie]: 11:32

Yeah, I think I'm wrong with Ray J. I hit it first. Yeah.

[purr]: 11:35

First thing that comes to mind is All Mine by Brent Fier. Just,

[bernie]: 11:40

Okay.

[purr]: 11:41

yeah. Like I got him.

[bernie]: 11:45

Got em.

[purr]: 11:45

Got him

[bernie]: 11:46

Gotcha

[purr]: 11:46

now.

[bernie]: 11:46

nigga.

[purr]: 11:48

We got him.

[bernie]: 11:49

We can!

[purr]: 11:54

That's my favorite meme. Drew's cute as fuck and funny.

[bernie]: 11:57

He's so fucking hilarious. He's so f-

[purr]: 12:00

We got him. We got him.

[bernie]: 12:02

We got him. Oh, my other one that came to my mind was like, I was really trying to be on some nasty free shit is like Beyonce dance for you. Very much pick me like, yes.

[purr]: 12:14

I was thinking something ratchet like

[bernie]: 12:18

I'm looking for the hooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[purr]: 12:19

like. I don't know. For some reason Megan Thee Stallion was coming tonight.

[bernie]: 12:31

Okay, she did. Big old tree.

[purr]: 12:35

To go free?

[bernie]: 12:40

After you just get

[purr]: 12:41

Oh!

[bernie]: 12:41

in there, you're about to cut the fuck up.

[purr]: 12:44

Yeah, just like something like, yeah, I'm about to turn up. But are you thought you had a nice little girl? No, I'm about to wallow.

[bernie]: 12:55

Yeah.

[purr]: 12:55

Just one second. Let me put my shit on.

[bernie]: 12:59

Yeah, I feel like you could even do like Captain Hook on that shit too. That shit would go probably well.

[purr]: 13:02

Yeah,

[bernie]: 13:04

Hit

[purr]: 13:04

that'll

[bernie]: 13:04

this pussy

[purr]: 13:04

go down.

[bernie]: 13:05

with an uppercut.

[purr]: 13:07

Call that

[bernie]: 13:08

Yeah,

[purr]: 13:08

nigga Captain Hook.

[bernie]: 13:09

quite insane.

[purr]: 13:12

Um, shit, fuck it, just, they're all on skee.

[bernie]: 13:17

KEEEEE- PFFF- to the ride

[purr]: 13:21

Foul

[bernie]: 13:21

that she

[purr]: 13:21

town,

[bernie]: 13:21

is. Times

[purr]: 13:22

you left foul town.

[bernie]: 13:23

down. Okay, yeah, yeah. Yeah.

[purr]: 13:30

I hate it.

[bernie]: 13:31

Oh my

[purr]: 13:31

I

[bernie]: 13:31

god, I'm here

[purr]: 13:32

hate

[bernie]: 13:32

for the

[purr]: 13:32

everybody.

[bernie]: 13:32

pound.

[purr]: 13:33

That girl is unhinged.

[bernie]: 13:35

I'm here.

[purr]: 13:36

I just learned something about that girl that I could have gone without knowing. So apparently she has a lip gloss line and the names of the lip glosses are out fucking raging.

[bernie]: 13:56

Sexy Reds

[purr]: 13:56

There's

[bernie]: 13:57

have

[purr]: 13:57

a YouTube

[bernie]: 13:57

lip gloss.

[purr]: 13:57

video. Yes, bitch. She's like,

[bernie]: 14:01

I

[purr]: 14:01

I

[bernie]: 14:01

didn't

[purr]: 14:01

have

[bernie]: 14:01

know she was

[purr]: 14:01

one.

[bernie]: 14:01

an entrepreneur and a business lady already!

[purr]: 14:05

Listen to the names, bitch. She goes, actually, I'm just gonna pull it up. I'm gonna pull it up because no one can do it. I can't even.

[bernie]: 14:14

I'm only imagining what some of the names are. So you don't know who Sexy Red is. She sings Pound Town, Ski,

[purr]: 14:21

It's a ratchet.

[bernie]: 14:21

looking for the ho. What else? It's just quite, yeah.

[purr]: 14:30

Okay, are you ready for this?

[bernie]: 14:32

I feel a little unprepared, but yeah.

[purr]: 14:36

This is crazy. lip gloss brand and the names for my lip gloss is something that nobody would have ever thought of. I got one called Naked, I got one called Garneria, it's

[bernie]: 14:48

What?

[purr]: 14:48

green like Garneria. I got one called Yellow Discharge,

[bernie]: 14:52

What?

[purr]: 14:52

like how girls be having yellow discharge. Booty hole pink, booty hole brown, coochie juice, and coochie juice is clear with silver glitter, it's cute like this, cute and it smells good. And it's so like, you know people gonna talk shit, but other people was like, you know what I'm saying, I'm gonna get this, cause it's

[bernie]: 15:08

This is fire!

[purr]: 15:08

so, Ah!

[bernie]: 15:13

This is an amazing, that's good marketing.

[purr]: 15:18

sorry. I oh my god someone told me that as I pulled the video and the first thing she says I got a lip gloss um one of my lip glosses named nut I was like wait she said it's called nut because it's the color of nut

[bernie]: 15:36

Shit, this one gonorrhea, cause it's green. I mean, it makes so much sense. It's so easy. I mean, it's palatable. It's easy business. I mean.

[purr]: 15:44

Yellow discharge? What is wrong with you?

[bernie]: 15:49

Hehehe

[purr]: 15:51

We need to bring back Shane. Bring back Shane. Cause these bitches had no shame.

[bernie]: 15:58

I guarantee she's selling out over there. She can't even get enough gloss in. And bitches is buying it. Just...

[purr]: 16:04

Gucci pink and booty hole brown.

[bernie]: 16:06

Brown. What was the clear one with the glitter?

[purr]: 16:10

Coochie juice.

[bernie]: 16:11

Coochie juice. She said it smells

[purr]: 16:13

That

[bernie]: 16:13

good.

[purr]: 16:13

do sound cute though. I love a clear gloss.

[bernie]: 16:15

It sounds cute. Like she said it has a little glitter in it and it's clear and it smells good. Coochie juice. She might've

[purr]: 16:23

It

[bernie]: 16:23

had

[purr]: 16:23

do

[bernie]: 16:23

something

[purr]: 16:23

sound

[bernie]: 16:23

with

[purr]: 16:23

cute,

[bernie]: 16:23

that.

[purr]: 16:23

I love a good look. Lord have mercy, we are in hell. We are in hell.

[bernie]: 16:38

Cheers.

[purr]: 16:38

Yep. I'll throw on a little sexy red.

[bernie]: 16:44

The little sexy rap. Pound town, just left pound town. Left my nigga, he just took a bitch down. Eh.

[purr]: 16:53

I'm gonna go to the bathroom.

[bernie]: 16:56

I gotta do a first-second job.

[purr]: 16:59

Oh, you did. You was feeling yourself. I just let you have your moment. All

[bernie]: 17:03

You know, sometimes you just

[purr]: 17:04

right.

[bernie]: 17:04

gotta let me go, Chad.

[purr]: 17:06

Just let them go. You ain't let you live in your moment. Live your truth. All right, shall we get into the baby for all of us?

[bernie]: 17:17

Oh yes, I have a really great one.

[purr]: 17:21

Me too.

[bernie]: 17:22

It's

[purr]: 17:22

Oh, I

[bernie]: 17:23

a

[purr]: 17:23

don't

[bernie]: 17:23

repeat,

[purr]: 17:23

know.

[bernie]: 17:23

I think. Wow, we are

[purr]: 17:25

I

[bernie]: 17:25

second,

[purr]: 17:25

don't know what

[bernie]: 17:25

yes,

[purr]: 17:25

I wanna do.

[bernie]: 17:26

eh? Oh. Are you?

[purr]: 17:32

I don't know if I want to go goofy or if I want to go fun.

[bernie]: 17:36

Okay, are you swiping your Tamera?

[purr]: 17:39

No.

[bernie]: 17:40

Okay.

[purr]: 17:42

No, this is a color only fountain this week.

[bernie]: 17:44

I hope that after all this cracking, everybody do a Tamara about dating white men that we actually we actually are talking about the right twin because I honestly I don't know if I

[purr]: 17:55

We

[bernie]: 17:56

have

[purr]: 17:56

are.

[bernie]: 17:56

to feed them bitches to

[purr]: 17:57

We

[bernie]: 17:57

know

[purr]: 17:57

are.

[bernie]: 17:57

them apart.

[purr]: 17:59

We are. We are, Tiger.

[bernie]: 18:00

Yeah, okay. All right, cool.

[purr]: 18:02

Yeah.

[bernie]: 18:02

Cause you, yeah, that's right. That's right. I just wanna make sure. Yeah.

[purr]: 18:10

We can

[bernie]: 18:11

That

[purr]: 18:11

talk

[bernie]: 18:11

would be

[purr]: 18:11

about

[bernie]: 18:11

so

[purr]: 18:11

her every

[bernie]: 18:11

nice.

[purr]: 18:12

other week.

[bernie]: 18:12

I know.

[purr]: 18:16

Damn, I don't know what I wanna do. Do I go goofy, nigga, or do I go like just fine?

[bernie]: 18:24

Say goofy nigga, cuz sometimes the goofy shit is always cute. You know what I mean? It's like

[purr]: 18:30

Yeah.

[bernie]: 18:30

a little something different. Mine's definitely not goofy. It's definitely mature Fine, I'm picking him because he just was honored. So I'm I have Nas this week I think I've had him before it's always a great choice

[purr]: 18:44

Yeah, yeah,

[bernie]: 18:45

Yeah,

[purr]: 18:46

that's

[bernie]: 18:46

but

[purr]: 18:46

a classic.

[bernie]: 18:46

he just got honored this week because it's like

[purr]: 18:48

Short

[bernie]: 18:48

50 years

[purr]: 18:48

K.

[bernie]: 18:48

for hip-hop this year. Definitely a short king I think him and little Wayne did And

[purr]: 18:55

Oh,

[bernie]: 18:55

I will say,

[purr]: 18:55

too

[bernie]: 18:56

like,

[purr]: 18:56

short.

[bernie]: 18:57

little Wayne, like, his dreads looked like they were back on the bones slightly. So that was like,

[purr]: 19:02

That's what's up!

[bernie]: 19:03

yeah, that was like, this is dope. They both look good.

[purr]: 19:05

They

[bernie]: 19:05

I was

[purr]: 19:05

did

[bernie]: 19:05

like,

[purr]: 19:05

like a reattachment.

[bernie]: 19:06

yeah, girl, they brought their daughters. It was a cute fucking moment. It was a

[purr]: 19:11

Aww.

[bernie]: 19:11

cute

[purr]: 19:11

Yeah.

[bernie]: 19:11

moment. Yeah. And I looked, he looked great. He looked, he looked great.

[purr]: 19:18

Nice does look good. He's not aging for real.

[bernie]: 19:21

Not at all!

[purr]: 19:24

Bye.

[bernie]: 19:26

You're like, that nigga's not aging, neither is 50 Cent. That nigga's looked

[purr]: 19:31

Another.

[bernie]: 19:31

the same. He's looked the same since 2003.

[purr]: 19:35

Yeah, but like he's never really looked young either.

[bernie]: 19:39

No,

[purr]: 19:39

He's

[bernie]: 19:39

that's

[purr]: 19:39

one

[bernie]: 19:39

the

[purr]: 19:39

of

[bernie]: 19:39

thing!

[purr]: 19:39

those niggas who's just like, they came out kind of like late twenties and now they just still look like they in they 2030s.

[bernie]: 19:49

I was like, like

[purr]: 19:50

Like,

[bernie]: 19:50

35,

[purr]: 19:50

you know, like,

[bernie]: 19:51

the niggas look all

[purr]: 19:52

yeah.

[bernie]: 19:52

like 35, just.

[purr]: 19:54

35, just. because he always looked 35 to me. I've never seen him look younger or older than 35. Just

[bernie]: 20:08

This is true.

[purr]: 20:08

35. Okay.

[bernie]: 20:09

He just think of it every time.

[purr]: 20:13

And I think it was hot in the early 2000s. I was still 35.

[bernie]: 20:16

See you at 35.

[purr]: 20:17

Couldn't tell me any different. Can't convince me that he was any younger.

[bernie]: 20:25

So yeah, that's why I chose Nas this week. I think he just put an album out too, or maybe it wasn't like just just, but anyways, it was good, whatever it was. I think it was King's Disease two or three possibly. I don't know, I just be listening. And the shit was kind of, this shit had some thumpers on it. It's not none of this like mainstream like rap, like he ain't trap rapping on that shit. He's talking about some real shit

[purr]: 20:48

Yeah.

[bernie]: 20:48

about, you know, whatever. Just like, and he still got some bangers on there. He talking some shit, he spending money. He say be, you know, having some hoes on, He said he'd be cashing money, he said he'd be paying student loans and buying boats and shitting cars for bitches in bags.

[purr]: 21:03

Oh really?

[bernie]: 21:04

That's what he said in the song? Child, I'm only here just repeating the information.

[purr]: 21:09

Oh really? Sign me up for the bow. And the debt forgiveness.

[bernie]: 21:17

Facts because we need it. I only want to think about that. Oh

[purr]: 21:21

I don't either. Now I'm gonna have nightmares. I

[bernie]: 21:24

Mm-hmm.

[purr]: 21:25

don't even know why I brought that

[bernie]: 21:28

So

[purr]: 21:28

up.

[bernie]: 21:28

who

[purr]: 21:28

Anywho.

[bernie]: 21:28

are you guys?

[purr]: 21:31

So I'm gonna go goofy, and mine is gonna be Tyler the Creator.

[bernie]: 21:38

Oh, okay, yeah, that is definitely. Yeah.

[purr]: 21:42

I went back and was looking at loiter squad clips on YouTube, because that used to be my shit on Adult Swim, when it was really on. Funny. Funny as

[bernie]: 21:59

The

[purr]: 21:59

hell.

[bernie]: 21:59

niggas are all fools. The whole, like, gang.

[purr]: 22:03

Yeah, the whole loiter squad gang, Earl sweatshirt,

[bernie]: 22:07

Yes.

[purr]: 22:09

Tyler's

[bernie]: 22:09

Are they gonna

[purr]: 22:09

insane.

[bernie]: 22:10

be still

[purr]: 22:10

I

[bernie]: 22:10

around?

[purr]: 22:10

saw the birthday clip.

[bernie]: 22:12

Oh my God, the birthday clip.

[purr]: 22:15

So you just gonna bring me a birthday gift to my birthday party on my birthday at my birthday party? Ha!

[bernie]: 22:21

Crack with the glass.

[purr]: 22:25

Oh my god.

[bernie]: 22:28

Yeah, that niggas a fucking fool. Is Earl and them niggas still around him? Like I only be seeing, I'd be like hearing a Tyler,

[purr]: 22:33

Oh.

[bernie]: 22:33

but it'd just be Tyler. What I'd be seeing in here.

[purr]: 22:37

Yeah, I

[bernie]: 22:37

I

[purr]: 22:37

don't

[bernie]: 22:37

mean, but

[purr]: 22:37

know.

[bernie]: 22:37

they all grown now though. So it's like, I mean. Can you really run around like that forever, I guess? I mean, but some people.

[purr]: 22:47

Granted them niggas was kind of grown when lawyer squad was out too, so.

[bernie]: 22:52

Yeah, I didn't want to mention that.

[purr]: 22:55

I mean, I don't know how old Tyler is, but it was kind

[bernie]: 22:58

I don't

[purr]: 22:58

of gross.

[bernie]: 22:58

know either. And now I'm curious, I wanna say like, if you had to guess, what would you say? I'm gonna

[purr]: 23:05

If

[bernie]: 23:05

say

[purr]: 23:05

I had

[bernie]: 23:05

38.

[purr]: 23:05

to guess how old he is...

[bernie]: 23:07

Yeah, I'm gonna say 38.

[purr]: 23:10

I'm feeling like 30. Damn, I'll be forgetting my own fucking age. Uh, let's

[bernie]: 23:17

Ooooooo

[purr]: 23:18

see. Is it old?

[bernie]: 23:23

I feel

[purr]: 23:23

I was

[bernie]: 23:23

bad.

[purr]: 23:23

gonna say like... I was gonna say like 34.

[bernie]: 23:26

Okay, yeah, that was much better. He's 32.

[purr]: 23:31

Oh damn.

[bernie]: 23:31

I don't know why I thought the nigga was older than that.

[purr]: 23:35

Okay so they wasn't like grown then.

[bernie]: 23:40

Yeah.

[purr]: 23:40

They were like 18.

[bernie]: 23:42

Right, so it's not that bad. But, okay, I don't know why I thought the nigga was older than that. It just seems like he's been around for a long time, because I really do remember this

[purr]: 23:50

It

[bernie]: 23:50

nigga

[purr]: 23:50

does.

[bernie]: 23:50

from like Tumblr days and all that shit like that.

[purr]: 23:55

Yeah, so they were like, they were like 18, 19, because lawyer

[bernie]: 23:59

Right.

[purr]: 23:59

squad was like high school days.

[bernie]: 24:03

Yeah.

[purr]: 24:08

So yeah,

[bernie]: 24:08

Okay, yeah,

[purr]: 24:08

that's

[bernie]: 24:08

this is

[purr]: 24:09

mine.

[bernie]: 24:09

definitely, this is a good pick. Yeah, he...

[purr]: 24:11

Yes, ma'am.

[bernie]: 24:14

This is a good pic.

[purr]: 24:15

and I will

[bernie]: 24:15

It's

[purr]: 24:15

stick

[bernie]: 24:15

definitely

[purr]: 24:16

to Sam.

[bernie]: 24:16

goofy. And he has a good song out right now too called like Dog Food or Dog something.

[purr]: 24:24

Dog 2.

[bernie]: 24:26

Yeah, that shit is a banger.

[purr]: 24:29

is people be sleeping on Tyler but

[bernie]: 24:32

Sleeping on him. Like, he really don't

[purr]: 24:34

I

[bernie]: 24:34

be

[purr]: 24:34

went

[bernie]: 24:34

getting

[purr]: 24:34

to

[bernie]: 24:34

the credit.

[purr]: 24:34

his stage at Lala last year lit

[bernie]: 24:39

Feels good.

[purr]: 24:42

I was like I have to go see Tyler and I'm like y'all be sleeping on him like I really didn't start getting on him until I think yeah like college I remember being in the dorms but that song he has with Frank Ocean

[bernie]: 24:55

Mm-hmm.

[purr]: 24:56

she that

[bernie]: 24:59

Yeah.

[purr]: 25:00

That's why I got on him heavy.

[bernie]: 25:03

He has been around a while too and he just doesn't get brought up in like a lot of Conversation and shit like that and I think because he kind of has been like alternative type I guess rap or whatever the niggas still be rapping so we put in bars together. So like let's Yeah This is a

[purr]: 25:18

Yeah,

[bernie]: 25:18

good pic

[purr]: 25:18

he was spitting

[bernie]: 25:20

This was a good pic. I

[purr]: 25:21

on me.

[bernie]: 25:21

like this.

[purr]: 25:21

Thank you.

[bernie]: 25:22

I like this

[purr]: 25:24

I'm going to pat myself

[bernie]: 25:25

Okay

[purr]: 25:25

on the back.

[bernie]: 25:31

Alright.

[purr]: 25:34

Well... get into the nitty gritty.

[bernie]: 25:41

Yes,

[purr]: 25:41

So

[bernie]: 25:41

the

[purr]: 25:41

let's

[bernie]: 25:42

good

[purr]: 25:42

say

[bernie]: 25:42

old

[purr]: 25:42

grita.

[bernie]: 25:42

me.

[purr]: 25:46

the meat, the steak. Okay y'all. So this week we're going to be talking about emotional incest. It's not what it sounds like.

[bernie]: 26:05

No.

[purr]: 26:06

Yes,

[bernie]: 26:06

So...

[purr]: 26:06

I mentioned the word incest, but it's not like that.

[bernie]: 26:11

Right, so it's all, you know, a mental type situation. Nobody's getting fucked. Nobody wants to get fucked. There is no possibility of anybody being fucked. Like nobody's

[purr]: 26:21

No.

[bernie]: 26:21

having an

[purr]: 26:23

There

[bernie]: 26:23

intimate.

[purr]: 26:23

is no illegalness.

[bernie]: 26:25

No, there's nothing, yeah, none of that's taking place. So let that, take that piece out of your mind.

[purr]: 26:34

Yes, this is also known as covert incest. Right?

[bernie]: 26:39

I was, yes,

[purr]: 26:40

Covert.

[bernie]: 26:40

covert. Yes, covert in Seth, which over would be, you know, obviously.

[purr]: 26:48

to say that what we

[bernie]: 26:48

Yeah.

[purr]: 26:48

just said. OK.

[bernie]: 26:52

I feel like there should be another word for this, honestly, just because it's, every time incest comes up, it's a little triggering. It's like, what the fuck?

[purr]: 26:58

It's a little, little triggering.

[bernie]: 27:00

Yeah.

[purr]: 27:01

But this is what we got. So what emotional incest is it doesn't involve any physical or sexual abuse, like we said, but it's more so someone who has experienced How do I say this? But it differs, the relationship between the child and the parent or primary caregiver. doesn't include sibling or extended family. So basically, the child taking on the emotional role as the parent.

[bernie]: 27:46

Yes, where it becomes

[purr]: 27:47

instead

[bernie]: 27:47

more like...

[purr]: 27:47

of being able to live as a child.

[bernie]: 27:50

Right, right, exactly. They're not really even taking the place of a child because they're bearing the burden of the emotional. I guess there's some, yeah, there's some emotional dumping and being happening, I guess.

[purr]: 28:03

Yeah, absolutely. I have like different takes on this. I

[bernie]: 28:16

Bye!

[purr]: 28:16

feel like this can be kind of like cultural. No?

[bernie]: 28:22

I do. I actually do see as it can be cultural because the dynamics can shift tremendously depending on again how you grow up and then how like what's within your culture. So, you know, I guess you could look at it like, you know, oftentimes you have close parent, right? Or, or you grow up in like, you know, there's an absentee dad or some type of shit like that or absentee mom. Yeah.

[purr]: 28:50

That's one of the causes that they actually mention here. So like the causes of emotional incest often takes place when a parent lacks or has lost their own emotional support system, including their parent or spouse. So they might feel isolated or not know how to find constructive outlets for difficult emotions in these cases. So some of those examples, separation or divorce, grief, grief and loss, infidelity, lack of intimacy or emotional availability between parents, domestic violence, attachment, trauma, fear of abandonment and specific mental health condition, personality

[bernie]: 29:31

Yeah.

[purr]: 29:31

disorders.

[bernie]: 29:33

Yeah, so the parent just becomes kind of dumping their emotions there because there is no other outlet. And then so the kid bears the burden, the child bears the burden of being emotional. Or yeah, and then it's also like it could be the emotional attachment too, because of course, like if there's only one parent, then it's like, you know, that child is only going to be attached to that one parent. There's no more, there's no balance between

[purr]: 30:00

Yeah.

[bernie]: 30:00

parents.

[purr]: 30:06

was kind of weird to me that stuck out was when they were talking about them showing like jealousy, like when their child spends time away from them. I was like, Oh, that's weird.

[bernie]: 30:21

Yeah, and then you start to feel like, um, and then the child can then feel and turn guilty for like then being away or whatever, you know what I mean? And like having that bearing that burden of like, oh, well, they're by themselves, or they might need me

[purr]: 30:37

Okay.

[bernie]: 30:38

or all of that. Yeah. But and again, it's not again, we're removing that piece of it. This is an emotional it's an emotional thing, right? And again,

[purr]: 30:49

right.

[bernie]: 30:49

it's human nature for us to become attached and to develop emotions and to become close. That's just part of human nature. That's why it's the beauty of having balance and dynamics within a lot of different relationships. I mean, for

[purr]: 31:07

and

[bernie]: 31:07

me,

[purr]: 31:07

having those boundaries.

[bernie]: 31:09

having boundaries, and again, the whole part of human existence is connection, making connections. that's what we're supposed to do. So you build a lot of different connections and relationships and then defining that balance of like what this relationship is particularly for. And again, like you said, a motherfucking foundry.

[purr]: 31:30

boundary. No that's

[bernie]: 31:31

But

[purr]: 31:31

literally what it said it's just having those there are non-existent boundaries with

[bernie]: 31:38

Mm-hmm.

[purr]: 31:38

that. I guess this can also be called parent parentification. Parentification.

[bernie]: 31:47

currentification, okay.

[purr]: 31:50

Its emotional incest is a type of parentification known as emotional parentification in which the child is forced to take on the emotional burden that a parent caregiver would usually shoulder.

[bernie]: 32:07

Hmm, yeah, that's

[purr]: 32:10

So

[bernie]: 32:10

really

[purr]: 32:10

we can

[bernie]: 32:11

what

[purr]: 32:11

set

[bernie]: 32:11

it

[purr]: 32:11

that

[bernie]: 32:11

is.

[purr]: 32:11

instead of emotional insist.

[bernie]: 32:15

That sounds a lot better.

[purr]: 32:17

Yeah. I found a Reddit. It's long, but it relates to that. Huh. Let me see here.

[bernie]: 32:35

That's a hard one. Like, I can only imagine what they're probably asking, but that's so hard.

[purr]: 32:42

I feel like this is... I feel like this is common though, like...

[bernie]: 32:46

It's so common, like...

[purr]: 32:49

I feel like this is common. Listen to this. Listen to this. I feel like this is common. Okay, so this says I think my boyfriend is suffering from emotional incest. I, 20 year old female, my boyfriend, 20 year old male, have been dating for over a year now. He has what you would call a monster of a mother. She is very controlling over him and is very touchy about the topic of him moving out. This has bothered me since before we started dating and I've had multiple conversations with him about how I feel. I've talked to friends. I've talked to friends and family about this and they all usually say the same thing except for one. I was telling my friend one day about the things his mom says and does and she said it almost sounds like she's jealous of the time that you two spent together. I'm getting like feedback in my ear.

[bernie]: 33:43

And like on my on.

[purr]: 33:46

No, it's just like I can hear myself.

[bernie]: 33:48

Ah, okay.

[purr]: 33:49

After I say stuff. Um, it almost sounds like she's jealous of the time that you two spend together. It clicked right then. That sentence made so much sense to me. We'll call her Karen. Karen has always been picky about when, where, and what time me and my boyfriend can hang out and whenever plans change or we want to stay out longer, she throws a fit. It's like she's emotionally dependent on her son. So one day I was scrolling through TikTok and the topic emotional incest came up. I have never heard of it before, but I took a look into it, what it was. The definition is a type of abuse in which a parent looks to their child for emotional support that would normally be provided by another adult. I don't know what to do with this information. Should I talk to my boyfriend about it or do more research?

[bernie]: 34:45

Ooh, TikTok be TikTok and let's start there, okay? Like you

[purr]: 34:49

Oof.

[bernie]: 34:49

can find your shit on motherfucking TikTok. I swear to God. And they'll wrap that

[purr]: 34:53

Zona?

[bernie]: 34:53

shit up in one minute, okay? You'll have all you need to motherfucking know. But ooh, that is, ooh, um, shit.

[purr]: 35:04

Yeah.

[bernie]: 35:04

I mean. I- She would also need to be prepared to walk her man through that piece and be able to like kind of support because he may need a lot of it because it's like kind of not a relationship dying but a relationship, a barge relationship changing and a dynamic changing in a relationship can sometimes feel like a death which is a little OD but it can feel like that emotional, like an emotional death. And yeah, that could be really tough for him to deal with because then he may start to lean on her a little bit, which again is fine, but she got to be prepared to be, you know, strong and shit to like support the nigga.

[purr]: 35:52

Yeah. I think the other thing that she needs to be prepared to do is kind of realize that this is unveiling that he is experiencing like a form of abuse and

[bernie]: 36:07

True, yeah.

[purr]: 36:07

he may not have even been savvy to even knowing what the fuck was going on or

[bernie]: 36:14

Mm-hmm.

[purr]: 36:15

that it wasn't really okay. So kind of dealing with the fact that he's now realizing like this is not right. It is a form of emotional abuse and be able to kind of walk him through like, if it is like kind of traumatic for him or if he's just like, oh, it's no big deal. And he thinks like the shit is cool. Okay. But be prepared for if he's really, you know,

[bernie]: 36:48

Yeah.

[purr]: 36:48

kind of.

[bernie]: 36:50

And that's a lot to say, even if like you said the second option of him being like, I don't give a fuck, it's whatever. Like that's kind of a little bit of a flag too, because then he may

[purr]: 36:59

I feel

[bernie]: 36:59

not

[purr]: 36:59

like it's very

[bernie]: 36:59

be.

[purr]: 37:00

normalized. So that's why

[bernie]: 37:01

Yeah.

[purr]: 37:01

I was just like, I just be like, oh no, that's just how my mom is. She's just very protective.

[bernie]: 37:07

Yeah, and she would, I think she also needs to kind of reiterate or at least provide him with some type of literature or something that's palatable that he would understand

[purr]: 37:16

Yeah, not

[bernie]: 37:16

to

[purr]: 37:16

TikTok.

[bernie]: 37:16

be like, yeah, to be like, this is actually yes that may be like normal. And that for you but like it's not okay. You know, like

[purr]: 37:26

Yeah.

[bernie]: 37:27

that. It's not an okay thing like it's normal, and that's your dynamic of how you maybe have grown up but it's not okay. It doesn't have to be that way.

[purr]: 37:36

Yeah. So also be prepared to, you know, do that as well as support him through an emotional,

[bernie]: 37:48

movie.

[purr]: 37:48

you know, the grieving process as you said. Yeah,

[bernie]: 37:53

Yeah, that's gonna be some

[purr]: 37:54

I

[bernie]: 37:54

real

[purr]: 37:54

thought that

[bernie]: 37:54

shit

[purr]: 37:54

was

[bernie]: 37:54

to

[purr]: 37:54

crazy.

[bernie]: 37:55

navigate.

[purr]: 37:55

I was

[bernie]: 37:55

That

[purr]: 37:55

like,

[bernie]: 37:55

is kind of wild.

[purr]: 38:05

people have a monster in law, like they can't stand their fucking mother-in-law because they act like that.

[bernie]: 38:11

Yes.

[purr]: 38:11

Or worse, like a sibling or something that acts like

[bernie]: 38:14

Yeah,

[purr]: 38:14

that.

[bernie]: 38:15

they're super possessive

[purr]: 38:16

Whoo!

[bernie]: 38:16

and like, you know what I mean? And you think like that probably happens like in most of these, I'm just like making a guess, but like, especially for twins, you know, cause they'd be so co-dependent, can often be co-dependent. And then imagining like that even on an emotional standpoint of like, yeah, they get into a relationship and having that dynamic strained, like, oh,

[purr]: 38:40

Mmm.

[bernie]: 38:41

yeah, that's

[purr]: 38:41

Merci.

[bernie]: 38:41

not a good. It is, but yeah, that is a dynamic that happens often where we're like, yeah, the mother-in-law is just like, this bitch is a mess. She's too much. It's like, what? What's

[purr]: 38:50

I feel

[bernie]: 38:51

going

[purr]: 38:51

like especially

[bernie]: 38:51

on?

[purr]: 38:51

with moms and sons, like,

[bernie]: 38:53

Yeah.

[purr]: 38:54

go away. like this is a grown man

[bernie]: 39:01

Yeah.

[purr]: 39:03

and I am taking care of him just fine just

[bernie]: 39:06

Like he's good, babe. I know you like

[purr]: 39:07

be good

[bernie]: 39:08

probably

[purr]: 39:08

over here

[bernie]: 39:08

normally do X, Y, and Z, but like, you know,

[purr]: 39:11

He love it over here.

[bernie]: 39:12

let me play my

[purr]: 39:13

Okay.

[bernie]: 39:13

position, Shardy, and you play yours. Oh

[purr]: 39:17

He love it over here. Okay.

[bernie]: 39:21

my God.

[purr]: 39:21

relay.

[bernie]: 39:24

Wait, I'm gonna say this box better than the box he was held in, like cut it out.

[purr]: 39:29

and then the box he was held. He cut it

[bernie]: 39:32

Cut it out. Yeah. That's

[purr]: 39:35

out. Oh

[bernie]: 39:36

insane.

[purr]: 39:37

my God. We did not just go back to high school.

[bernie]: 39:39

That is insane, first of all. Eight,

[purr]: 39:41

Nikki really ate that shit up.

[bernie]: 39:43

but that is insane to say. This box, better than the box he was,

[purr]: 39:48

box

[bernie]: 39:48

cut

[purr]: 39:48

he

[bernie]: 39:49

it.

[purr]: 39:49

was held in.

[bernie]: 39:50

You are not going to convey your pussy to that man's mom.

[purr]: 39:54

But I feel like that was, I feel like that was, she meant that two ways.

[bernie]: 40:00

And she did,

[purr]: 40:01

Because

[bernie]: 40:01

because

[purr]: 40:01

she

[bernie]: 40:01

it was

[purr]: 40:01

also

[bernie]: 40:01

in jail

[purr]: 40:01

said that

[bernie]: 40:02

too.

[purr]: 40:02

he did five years of,

[bernie]: 40:05

Yeah

[purr]: 40:06

yo, Nicki snapped. She also said

[bernie]: 40:09

Like,

[purr]: 40:09

he did a five

[bernie]: 40:10

body.

[purr]: 40:10

year bid.

[bernie]: 40:13

Yeah,

[purr]: 40:13

Right?

[bernie]: 40:13

body. Yeah,

[purr]: 40:14

I have to sing

[bernie]: 40:15

it was

[purr]: 40:15

it.

[bernie]: 40:15

a no, it was it was yes, like something about I'm doing five years and that being the box and then the box like, yeah,

[purr]: 40:21

and

[bernie]: 40:21

she

[purr]: 40:21

then the box.

[bernie]: 40:22

Yeah, she munched

[purr]: 40:23

She

[bernie]: 40:23

down on it.

[purr]: 40:23

ate. Yo,

[bernie]: 40:28

Yeah.

[purr]: 40:28

I just realized how Niki snapped on that. Mm.

[bernie]: 40:34

But yeah, this is actually a very common thing. So I think like, you know, maybe look a little inside or just be observing and shit like that and understanding. And again, it's not a bad thing. It's nothing to like

[purr]: 40:45

I

[bernie]: 40:45

be,

[purr]: 40:45

don't think it's bad to be protective at all.

[bernie]: 40:47

no, I don't think

[purr]: 40:48

Because

[bernie]: 40:48

so

[purr]: 40:49

the

[bernie]: 40:49

at

[purr]: 40:49

other

[bernie]: 40:49

all.

[purr]: 40:49

thing in the back of my mind was thinking, like, maybe she know you ain't shit, bitch. Or she got a feeling about you.

[bernie]: 40:55

And that can be very true too. That's often so it could also be that. And she could be maybe doing too much as his girlfriend. Like, okay, hold on bitch, you kind of overstepping because this is not your husband. And the mom is kind

[purr]: 41:06

Mm-hmm.

[bernie]: 41:06

of like, I don't know, she shouldn't be trying to push you. Like y'all ain't moving. You know what I mean? She could be knowing like,

[purr]: 41:10

and they're only like 20.

[bernie]: 41:12

there are only 20. Like she may know something else too. She may know something else.

[purr]: 41:18

Mm-hmm.

[bernie]: 41:20

And she

[purr]: 41:20

Yep.

[bernie]: 41:20

might be crazy.

[purr]: 41:23

you met very well could be.

[bernie]: 41:30

Uh... okay.

[purr]: 41:31

You know what I say, perhaps.

[bernie]: 41:33

Perhaps.

[purr]: 41:38

I suppose.

[bernie]: 41:40

I suppose. I love that. Okay, so should we do a couple of these, ready?

[purr]: 41:50

Yes, I... you can start with one of them. I'm going to send you a note of this one. Who needs advice?

[bernie]: 42:04

Oh my god.

[purr]: 42:04

I don't know if we want to start with this or what, bitch.

[bernie]: 42:08

Let's come

[purr]: 42:09

But...

[bernie]: 42:09

in hot, fuck it. You also, she

[purr]: 42:11

Okay.

[bernie]: 42:11

said she was saving this for me for a live little reaction of how crazy this Reddit was. So, I mean,

[purr]: 42:18

Mmm.

[bernie]: 42:19

we gonna be, it's gonna be all of us together. Oh

[purr]: 42:23

Mm-hmm

[bernie]: 42:23

Lord, oh, it's a bitch named Melissa. Lord Jesus, Melissa. Okay, so here we go. Melissa needs advice. Melissa has been house sitting for her parents while they've been on a holiday. In that time, she had a few glasses of wine. She was looking under the bed for somewhere to plug in her phone charger, and she found rather a eye-catching shoe box, letting curiosity get the better of her, and not for the first time in this story with disastrous consequences. She looked inside the shoe box and found that hidden inside, it was her mom's massive dildo. Instead of putting it back where she found it, she washed her hands. and drinking enough wine to... no she's not. Okay, hold on now. She instead gave the sex toy a wash and used it for herself. While she certainly enjoyed is she serious? Enjoyed herself in that moment. She she was about to hit with a wave of regrets as she realized that it etched onto the sex toy were the words clone a Willie suggesting that the dildo was a replica of an actual person's dingaling. More specifically, Melissa said that she realized that this sex toy hit all the right spot. and was the exact replica of her dad's? Come on, dog. Melissa? What?

[purr]: 43:58

I'm sorry.

[bernie]: 44:00

Bitch, that's why they said curiosity kills the cat. She had no business writing her mother's deal, though that was her dad's

[purr]: 44:06

Why would

[bernie]: 44:06

deal.

[purr]: 44:07

she do that?

[bernie]: 44:07

Why would she do that?

[purr]: 44:11

So the question is, how am I meant to proceed from here? What is your advice, bitch?

[bernie]: 44:21

I don't... I...

[purr]: 44:22

Electric care.

[bernie]: 44:23

I advise you to mind your fucking business next time. That's what I advise.

[purr]: 44:28

Like, literally.

[bernie]: 44:30

That is my advice.

[purr]: 44:33

You see a shoe box under the bed, bitch. What makes you want to go in there?

[bernie]: 44:37

She just wrote her dad.

[purr]: 44:38

A decorated shoe box.

[bernie]: 44:40

replicated penis? Is she out of her fucking mind?

[purr]: 44:49

I'm sorry, that had my wigs split when I read

[bernie]: 44:52

Cut my

[purr]: 44:52

that.

[bernie]: 44:52

pussy off.

[purr]: 44:52

I was like, when I heard that, I was like, absolutely not.

[bernie]: 44:56

You cut my-

[purr]: 44:57

No, no.

[bernie]: 44:59

Cut.

[purr]: 44:59

Take every, full

[bernie]: 45:01

Take

[purr]: 45:01

hysterectomy.

[bernie]: 45:01

it.

[purr]: 45:03

Full hysterectomy.

[bernie]: 45:05

Take it!

[purr]: 45:06

Take the inside, take the outside. I wanna look like Barbie, bitch, just nothing there. Just take it all off. Take my whole pussy, throw the pussy away.

[bernie]: 45:20

at that point, actually put it in the lab for research.

[purr]: 45:26

Mm-mm.

[bernie]: 45:26

I don't need it. I don't.

[purr]: 45:31

Clone Willie. Why would she use her mama's sex toy?

[bernie]: 45:39

Why would, that's where I'm starting with it first. Like, aside from why would you ride that? Why would you think to do that? Why were you curious? To see what your mom was fucking with? Like, I don't even understand. Like, I just, I don't get it, dog. It's not.

[purr]: 46:05

Yeah, I'm gonna read this. Don't read it before. Where do we go from here?

[bernie]: 46:11

Was there any sound advice? Like nobody had anything good to tell her, like.

[purr]: 46:17

I don't know. I have nothing, I have nothing.

[bernie]: 46:25

Oh yeah, I don't have nothing. I don't have

[purr]: 46:27

I usually

[bernie]: 46:27

it.

[purr]: 46:27

have something to say. I usually

[bernie]: 46:30

I'm here to

[purr]: 46:30

always

[bernie]: 46:31

tell

[purr]: 46:31

have

[bernie]: 46:31

you right

[purr]: 46:31

something

[bernie]: 46:31

now.

[purr]: 46:31

to say, which is why my big mouth ass has a podcast. I have nothing to say.

[bernie]: 46:39

I don't have the answer, Sway. Okay, so let's just go on to the next. Let's just go on to the next Reddit. This one is, okay, so we read the title of this one earlier. We didn't get to the situation, but ciao. This is in dating advice. Let me take a sip of more.

[purr]: 47:01

part.

[bernie]: 47:02

It says, dude, I went on a date with, lost his car midway through the date. Okay, so I met this guy on Bumble and he decided to do a gym date with me. It was extremely awkward. at first but I just went and rolled. Okay, hold on a second. Went and rolled

[purr]: 47:18

Hmm?

[bernie]: 47:18

with the despite of all of this. I decided to get food with him afterwards and he picks this place downtown. After we finished eating our food, he decides that we should go on a walk. We walked about two hours. After that two hour mark, I was like, I'm tired, thirsty, and it was hot and humid and the dude says that he doesn't know where his car is at. I said, okay, I'll just wait for you here while you go look for the car and pick me up once you find the car. 20... 20, 25 minutes go by, he calls me and tells me that he can't find his car at this point. And I was like, okay, fine, I'll help you look for it. I went to the parking garage by the restaurant and didn't see it there. And after that point, I was looking for about 30 minutes and I was like, yeah, I'm going home. I get on the bus because I don't live far from downtown. He texts me and tells me that he still could not find his car. At this point, I low key thought he was lying. I advised him to either talk to the workers. And he was like, yo, I'll talk to the cops. The cops didn't help me much. And then he asked to come over my place because he started looking for his car and that his phone's about to die. I don't know if this guy is like, I don't know what's going on. I honestly don't trust this situation. I'm not really sure what to do. Maybe somebody stole it, but like I'm I feel like I just want to tell him I'm sorry like but I can't help him

[purr]: 48:39

Yeah,

[bernie]: 48:41

Um, I

[purr]: 48:41

sorry

[bernie]: 48:41

think that's your

[purr]: 48:42

that's

[bernie]: 48:42

good

[purr]: 48:42

unfortunate.

[bernie]: 48:43

That's really good advice How you lose your car on the date nigga? I can't

[purr]: 48:54

You

[bernie]: 48:54

even

[purr]: 48:54

don't

[bernie]: 48:54

imagine

[purr]: 48:55

know.

[bernie]: 48:55

being on a date with a nigga and like we go hike somewhere and we come in

[purr]: 48:58

Now

[bernie]: 48:58

the

[purr]: 48:58

you

[bernie]: 48:58

car

[purr]: 48:58

can't find your car.

[bernie]: 49:00

and then

[purr]: 49:00

Biggest

[bernie]: 49:00

the car is gone.

[purr]: 49:00

egg.

[bernie]: 49:01

Like

[purr]: 49:02

Biggest fucking egg.

[bernie]: 49:04

nigga you don't know your way around. I am completely turned on.

[purr]: 49:06

They're talking about things that give you the egg you can't find your fucking car

[bernie]: 49:10

I'm sorry.

[purr]: 49:11

Yeah, oh Hell no, I've never seen you again

[bernie]: 49:19

Ever!

[purr]: 49:20

you can't find your car

[bernie]: 49:22

Like bitch, let this nigga go. I'm sorry, how do you lose your car on the date? Be responsible. Damn, that's hilarious.

[purr]: 49:30

How you get your car stolen like that? Or you lose your car like what?

[bernie]: 49:34

or just what?

[purr]: 49:38

And then why are you trying to invite yourself over to her house?

[bernie]: 49:42

to charge your phone.

[purr]: 49:44

to charge your phone because you can't find your car. What's

[bernie]: 49:50

What

[purr]: 49:50

that got to do with me?

[bernie]: 49:51

the fuck? The fuck that guy? Go home,

[purr]: 49:53

No!

[bernie]: 49:53

niggas, call the cops. I can't help

[purr]: 49:58

Charge

[bernie]: 49:58

you.

[purr]: 49:59

your phone at the police station. The fuck? And then, I'm sorry, did she say she went on a gym date?

[bernie]: 50:09

Yes.

[purr]: 50:12

How does one gym date?

[bernie]: 50:15

I've never done that before, so I don't even know. Like, I've never... Is that like a cute thing to do? I feel like it's not for me, because to be honest, I'm mad musty.

[purr]: 50:25

Oh.

[bernie]: 50:25

Like, I'd be sweating, and like, I don't go to the gym to like, just play. Like, I actually go to like, work out. So I just don't feel like that's like, really date-like.

[purr]: 50:35

And that also seems like something that you do separately? Like, I don't know, like, even when we've gone to the gym before, like, we kind of just seen each other in between sets. And kept the

[bernie]: 50:47

Yeah,

[purr]: 50:47

question.

[bernie]: 50:47

like, okay, what you got going on? What you about to do? Okay, cool.

[purr]: 50:52

the leg. We, I don't, maybe, I don't know.

[bernie]: 51:02

I guess maybe that's

[purr]: 51:02

but.

[bernie]: 51:03

what the new girls is doing. Is this what's going on? People are going on gym days?

[purr]: 51:08

Like you said, I don't want to be musty around...

[bernie]: 51:11

I just, I know I stink. Like I just feel like that's a setup for like, damn this nigga stink. I don't wanna go to that.

[purr]: 51:18

It's not only is it workout sweat, but now it's also going to be like stress and anxiety sweat, which scientifically, statistically proven smells worse. And I know this because anytime I'm nervous and I sweat I'm like I have to shower. Because

[bernie]: 51:34

That's

[purr]: 51:35

I

[bernie]: 51:35

so

[purr]: 51:35

just

[bernie]: 51:35

true.

[purr]: 51:35

know it

[bernie]: 51:35

When

[purr]: 51:35

smells

[bernie]: 51:35

you start

[purr]: 51:36

worse.

[bernie]: 51:36

to get that nervous, that shit be funky. Like, it's like all the toxins out of your body just start coming. It's not even just like the water

[purr]: 51:42

like cortisol,

[bernie]: 51:42

in the salt.

[purr]: 51:43

just straight

[bernie]: 51:43

Yeah.

[purr]: 51:44

cortisol and just demons

[bernie]: 51:47

Hell yeah.

[purr]: 51:47

just expelled from your pores.

[bernie]: 51:50

Literally.

[purr]: 51:50

Yeah.

[bernie]: 51:52

Yeah, no, I'm not gonna I've never done that. I just

[purr]: 51:56

Mm-mm. I'm not going to.

[bernie]: 51:58

No.

[purr]: 51:59

You're by better ever.

[bernie]: 52:00

If you have, drop it in the comments. Let us know how that was. Did it work out?

[purr]: 52:04

Yeah, I'll give some tips

[bernie]: 52:06

No pun intended.

[purr]: 52:06

and tricks

[bernie]: 52:07

Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

[purr]: 52:07

on how to not be. Did it work? Mm-hmm.

[bernie]: 52:14

Uh... Okay,

[purr]: 52:18

Mm-mm.

[bernie]: 52:19

here's this maybe this is our last next one. This one looks fucking messy. So I'm really interested.

[purr]: 52:24

Oh dear.

[bernie]: 52:25

This one is in the swingers category. It says playing with a girlfriend from long ago. I am in my 60s. Damn this nigga Oh,

[purr]: 52:33

Ooh,

[bernie]: 52:33

not

[purr]: 52:34

damn!

[bernie]: 52:36

And my wife and I have been swinging for 10 years, open a bit less than that.

[purr]: 52:42

you

[bernie]: 52:42

We...

[purr]: 52:45

Damn!

[bernie]: 52:47

We have an interesting situation developing. Okay, I dated a girl in my 20s. Okay,

[purr]: 52:55

Damn!

[bernie]: 52:56

he's naming these bitches. Okay, I'm seeing what's happening. His wife's name is Elle, the girl that he dated, her name is G. So I dated a girl in my 20s. We stayed friendly for 40 years now. She's married a man she

[purr]: 53:09

Damn.

[bernie]: 53:09

met while we were dating.

[purr]: 53:16

40 years is wow.

[bernie]: 53:18

This nigga should have left some of these lit years off. This is too much. She's married a man

[purr]: 53:22

Damn.

[bernie]: 53:22

now. She's divorced him, married again, husband died. Now she's dating, God damn. She's dating again, finding it very difficult to find compatible men. She is friendly with both Elle and me. In fact, Elle has been something, has been something of a dating coach for G, and she got, so his new, his wife has been coaching the old bitch from 40 years ago.

[purr]: 53:51

On wood.

[bernie]: 53:52

on like her dating, trying to help her date. So she got started

[purr]: 53:55

Oh,

[bernie]: 53:55

in

[purr]: 53:55

okay.

[bernie]: 53:55

online dating. It says, so G is visiting for a few days and L asked if I might be interested in having sex with her again. Well, sure. So his wife asked if she wanted to fuck the girl. And he said, well, sure, I would. She has kept herself in excellent shape and is one of the most attractive people I know of any age. From talking with her over the years, she knows about. Our lifestyle, she's very sex positive and she isn't involved with anyone at the moment. We're talking with her on the phone, asked if she'd be open to it. She was completely taken by surprise and didn't have an immediate answer. She's thinking about it. I can see this going either way on her visit. What do you think? Good idea, bad idea. What will G want? Opinions on what G will want to do. G is the, um, the bitch from 40 years ago. And then L is the wife. So his wife is already gay.

[purr]: 54:45

Yeah, okay, so it sounds like she's gay, but we're...

[bernie]: 54:48

She's been coaching her and the fucking them. That's what she's been doing. She's been trying to prep the puss. She's been trying to set her up. Yeah, you should just do this, do this, do this. Ain't she been set her up the online dating profile? Woo, all right now.

[purr]: 55:02

I'll do what the fuck she was doing.

[bernie]: 55:04

I don't know what she- Ugh!

[purr]: 55:07

Damn. It's just really all the backstory for me. It was like all them fucking years. He was hating this bitch in his 20s and it's been 40 years later. Damn. I don't know if I'm still gonna be talking to somebody that I fucking with in my 20s

[bernie]: 55:25

And it

[purr]: 55:25

when

[bernie]: 55:25

was never

[purr]: 55:26

I'm

[bernie]: 55:26

done

[purr]: 55:26

60.

[bernie]: 55:26

in theory. Like it sounded like he just hit it a few times in his 20s. Like there

[purr]: 55:33

Yeah,

[bernie]: 55:33

was never a situation like that.

[purr]: 55:35

that's really spinning the block.

[bernie]: 55:37

Yeah, that's real talk

[purr]: 55:38

That's

[bernie]: 55:38

about

[purr]: 55:38

like

[bernie]: 55:38

a fuck.

[purr]: 55:38

going back to the old neighborhood.

[bernie]: 55:40

Girl, this nigga

[purr]: 55:41

That's

[bernie]: 55:41

going

[purr]: 55:41

not

[bernie]: 55:41

back

[purr]: 55:41

just

[bernie]: 55:42

to

[purr]: 55:42

spinning

[bernie]: 55:42

where he

[purr]: 55:42

the block.

[bernie]: 55:42

from. He going back to his first childhood house.

[purr]: 55:48

Damn.

[bernie]: 55:49

I'm just, you know what, like... It could be a situation that might work. I think it also might be a little, it could make for awkward, because if she's staying at the house, what if it goes bad? If she's gonna stay with y'all and be in y'all's situation and like, I guess she's hanging out with y'all for the weekend.

[purr]: 56:08

Oh, they're doing a weekend thing? No,

[bernie]: 56:10

I

[purr]: 56:10

no, she needs a way to go home.

[bernie]: 56:12

had. Yeah, send that bitch to a hotel, I'm gonna be honest.

[purr]: 56:15

Yeah,

[bernie]: 56:16

She

[purr]: 56:16

they

[bernie]: 56:16

can

[purr]: 56:16

need

[bernie]: 56:16

stay

[purr]: 56:16

to

[bernie]: 56:16

the

[purr]: 56:16

just

[bernie]: 56:16

night when

[purr]: 56:16

meet

[bernie]: 56:16

y'all fuck

[purr]: 56:17

up.

[bernie]: 56:17

though.

[purr]: 56:18

Yeah,

[bernie]: 56:19

Yeah.

[purr]: 56:19

they need to just meet up somewhere and do it that way because. Yeah, I think everyone just needs to have an out some way. I think it's just so good and so important to have an out.

[bernie]: 56:37

Yeah, because

[purr]: 56:38

Just

[bernie]: 56:38

I mean

[purr]: 56:38

in

[bernie]: 56:38

like...

[purr]: 56:38

any situation. That's why I like to drive to places. Let me have my car so I can leave.

[bernie]: 56:46

Yeah, and it

[purr]: 56:47

When

[bernie]: 56:47

just

[purr]: 56:47

I

[bernie]: 56:47

doesn't have to make for anything awkward. You can just, you know, go ahead and exit.

[purr]: 56:52

Yes.

[bernie]: 56:52

I agree. I think maybe it should be in a kind of a neutral space as opposed to there, just in case it doesn't work out so great. Or, you know, thinking about the long-term of it, like, what are you guys gonna do date this bitch? I mean, are you guys open to that? Do you guys know if you're open to dating this bitch? Or if she's even down for that situation? Like, you know, I think those are important questions to have pondered at the very least.

[purr]: 57:16

Mm.

[bernie]: 57:17

Damn, 40 years?

[purr]: 57:20

40 years.

[bernie]: 57:22

I can't wait to re listen to the back of us saying, damn, because honestly, the last couple, let me be honest, those were completely genuine, because I was like, is this real? That was really that was really digging into my ass.

[purr]: 57:36

Yeah,

[bernie]: 57:36

I

[purr]: 57:36

because

[bernie]: 57:36

tried to age me.

[purr]: 57:37

the story was just like, life was life and like she had been divorced, what, like

[bernie]: 57:43

Okay.

[purr]: 57:43

once or twice and then her husband died and she went, I was like, God, damn.

[bernie]: 57:47

I'm so sorry. But you just been through him honey, I'm so sorry.

[purr]: 57:52

I mean yeah life, I would assume life be life and after 60 like

[bernie]: 57:57

Yeah. And I hopefully that

[purr]: 57:58

You

[bernie]: 57:58

is

[purr]: 57:58

done

[bernie]: 57:58

life

[purr]: 57:58

seen

[bernie]: 57:58

me in a

[purr]: 57:58

some

[bernie]: 57:58

good

[purr]: 57:59

shit

[bernie]: 57:59

way that she's back to the first nigga that she ever dated in life. 40 years later. And I hope that's a good back. You know what I mean? It's not like, you know, shit is just going so bad. And you're like, fuck, let me just talk to this nigga that I knew from 50 years ago.

[purr]: 58:14

in my 20s in my early 20s

[bernie]: 58:17

Yeah.

[purr]: 58:18

but if I ever double back to niggas I fuck with in my early 20s you already know what to do

[bernie]: 58:25

Yeah.

[purr]: 58:27

You already know what to do.

[bernie]: 58:28

I'm gonna check your pulse, am I bitch you sick?

[purr]: 58:31

Take a pillow and put it over my fucking neck until I stop fighting back. Just... Oh my god.

[bernie]: 58:48

Oh my god.

[purr]: 58:48

Please don't. Don't.

[bernie]: 58:51

Yeah, wow.

[purr]: 58:52

That sounds crazy. Even in 40 years, that sounds crazy.

[bernie]: 58:57

Even in 40 years!

[purr]: 59:01

Wow. Holy shit.

[bernie]: 59:06

Oh damn, that was self shady. I actually put the title of this, I wrote like my own little comment. I wrote fucking an old fling with your boot and I really meant old as in just old. It was absolutely no pun when I wrote it. I just thought I'd read that out loud. Just happened. It was a happens. What's it got? A happenstance or whatever the fuck.

[purr]: 59:25

Mm-hmm.

[bernie]: 59:26

Yeah.

[purr]: 59:27

Oh my god. Old flame.

[bernie]: 59:29

It's an old fling. God damn it was an old fling for sure.

[purr]: 59:36

That

[bernie]: 59:36

Yeah,

[purr]: 59:36

Kevin

[bernie]: 59:36

it's different.

[purr]: 59:36

Hart reaction was so genuine.

[bernie]: 59:39

Really? He kind of snapped on that. He really did.

[purr]: 59:42

day.

[bernie]: 59:44

But speaking of old flings, you guys, if you're interested in looking at old clips of earlier shows, you are welcome to do that on our YouTube at Wyze Freaks. You can just put that in the YouTube and we're going to be the first niggas that pop up. And if you're interested in following us on Twitter, put us at Wyze Freaks Pod. You'll check us out over there and you'll see us pop up. And then do the same thing on Instagram and TikTok. We all over there. You guys are probably listening to this on Apple and Spotify. There might be a couple other platforms that Niggaz is listening to. Shout out to those. Maybe, maybe it's I Heart, maybe it's Pandora.

[purr]: 1:00:17

Maybe.

[bernie]: 1:00:18

Hey.

[purr]: 1:00:19

Wherever you're listening to this from.

[bernie]: 1:00:21

We take our platform.

[purr]: 1:00:23

We take our platform, shout out to y'all

[bernie]: 1:00:25

Yes.

[purr]: 1:00:25

for fucking with us. I guess you guys been sharing and.

[bernie]: 1:00:33

Okay,

[purr]: 1:00:33

listening

[bernie]: 1:00:34

that's good.

[purr]: 1:00:34

because I mean we appreciate it.

[bernie]: 1:00:37

Yeah, y'all really been fucking with us and shout out to the people that I have maybe are new or was going back listening to old episodes and supporting one of our sponsors from previous episodes. Oh my God, why am I drawing a blank on the name? Oh my, this

[purr]: 1:00:52

Vitali

[bernie]: 1:00:52

is so bad.

[purr]: 1:00:52

Boost.

[bernie]: 1:00:53

Oh, I touch. Oh, I was really having a brain fart.

[purr]: 1:00:56

Hehehe

[bernie]: 1:00:56

Yeah. Yeah, shout

[purr]: 1:00:59

by

[bernie]: 1:00:59

out

[purr]: 1:01:00

Tally

[bernie]: 1:01:00

to them.

[purr]: 1:01:00

Boost.

[bernie]: 1:01:02

Yeah. So we'll see you guys back here at same time, same place next week and it will be us. Okay. Bye.

[purr]: 1:01:12

See you, bye.

[bernie]: 1:01:16

Boom, hola.